I agree to a point with u. But she never split herself in 2 when she was pregnant (sorry I'm re reading the breaking dawn again and just finished that chapter hahaha) she felt her heart grow to love both nessie and edward equally. And she never blocked jacobs imprinting as its explained when the imprinting happens is happens there is nothing u can do about it u can't stop it from happening or choose who it will happen with or won't happen with think of the story of the 3 wife chief what's his name didn't imprint until his third wife was born a few generations after he was he never would have imprinted if her would have become mortal after the first threat in his time was gone but he decided to stay and protect.
But I do believe that bella and edward had something close to imprinting but not actually imprinting since that's a wolf thing let alone jacob never would have gotten that close to bella if it was actually imprinting. But something about bella being edwards singer I think totally has something to do with it :) along with the fact that threw the whole book they are so curious about each other which starts it off edward and his family and life are so mysterious and different which brought on bellas obsession needing to find out more of who he is and then getting to know him/finding things out about him he's not only not like everybody else (not talking about being a vamp just not like every other teenager in the small town) then he saves her life on more than one occasun to find out exactly how different he is but by this point she's been so enfactuated by him that she's fallen in love with him :)
OBVIOUSLLY YOU HAVE NEVER BEEN IN LOVE. EVEN IN TODAYS WORLD IT IS POSSIBLE TO LOVE SOMEONE THAT MUCH. I LOVE MY HUSBAND MORE THEN EVER. IT CONTINUES TO GROW AND AS HIM FOR ME. WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER 13 YEARS!
Yes! Yes! Yes! Thank you for putting it that way. I love my ex and would have stayed around and been happy enough but now being with my soul mate I could have never imagined the happiness, peace and love I feel every day. When it's right you just know and there is never any "forcing" the puzzle together