You don't need help!!! You just need to realize that he's a fictional character!!! That, however doesn't mean that there isn't someone out there for you who is your Edward Cullen!!! You just have to find him!!! And most importantly don't look for Edward Cullen, look for your Edward, as in what would make you happy!!! Don't expect perfect, cause you won't find it!!!
I think we are all in love what him and what his character exudes as its mind blowing but at the end of the day like everyone has said he is a fictional character. I say have fun in the moment but know when to come back to reality. :)