I agree and disagree. Look at it logically, Jacob loved Bella too. He wasn't forcing himself on her. He was helping her realize that she loved him too. He thought if she was turned into a vampire, he and his pack would have to kill her and he didn't want to do that to the one he loved. It's why he fault so hard, it may have looked like he was pushing himself on her, but it wasn't. Give him a little credit.