"Mkay....your thread got deleted just as I was posting to you! This was my response:
Your last paragraph makes me think you're on the right track.
"People don't agree with each other...everyone interprets differently...some people…"
"I've been to a lot of wedding lately where the bridesmaid dresses aren't the same style, they're just of the same color pallette. That way, each bridesmaid can pick whatever style is most flattering for her."