helpppppp!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hi i need some help. two of ex-boyfriends want to date me and i don't know which one i should choose. here are their discriptions blair is 16 tall with red hair with a little bit of an anger problem but he never ever does anything harmful to me he has got a great personality he can also protect himself as well as me. but i hardly ever see him due him and my brother fighting. rowan on the other hand has blonde/red hair very nice but he can't defend himself he is turning 14 in september i see him almost everyday at school but the reason i broke up with him is because i saw him kissing another girl so that is why need your help to decide which one to choose